Have you ever felt like the Universe came to your rescue, but you couldn’t explain how, or why?
Chances are, it was probably an intervention by your spirit guides.
Your spiritual guides are there to help you understand who you are and what has happened in your life from the time you were born.
And they’ve been watching your relationships most of all.
For example, you may feel that you are a lovable and generous person, but your relationships may be suffering.
When a relationship ends, it can be heartbreaking, but you may feel it is your fault that it came to an end.
This pain and loss are navigated by your spiritual guides, and you can find happiness again with the right beliefs.
If you want their help, they need to know you are serious!
Here are five simple things you can start doing today that will clear your energy field of negativity and invite your spirit guide to reveals itself to you.
1. Embrace Who You’ve REALLY Been Since Birth
At birth, there is very little that worries you. You don’t care about what others think or say about you, and you certain don’t worry if every hair is out of place. You don’t need constant love and approval to feel that warmth about yourself.
These worries and stressors don’t come to shape until you get older and start to buy into the belief system of those around you.
They can influence you to be a “good girl” or “good boy.” When you didn’t behave as you should, you probably were punished until you could behave again.
This taught you early on that your emotions needed to be suppressed and you were wrong if you displayed them.
It’s important you start to embrace who you REALLY are, and feel your feelings without filters, to let your sprit guides know you are being real.
2. Revisit Your Lessons From Childhood
Your parents no doubt loved you, unless, of course, you misbehaved. They would tell you and warn you about your actions, causing you to bottle your emotions in order to act as they wanted.
You may have been told you were a “bad boy” or “bad girl.” These perceived notions may have been detrimental to your self-esteem. You learned that you weren’t as perfect as you thought or beautiful in all ways possible.
You were rejected and sent to your room just for being the person that you are. This relationship with your parents was the first major heartbreak that you suffered in your life. They let you down, and you let them down too!
When you are young, being rejected is a scary turn of events. You may have thought that you were going to die without the love and care of your parents.
You couldn’t take care of yourself on your own and needed your parents to provide you with a nurturing love. This is a primal instinct that we all carry over into adulthood.
But it’s OK! There is a silver lining, so long as you look for the lessons, and use this as an example of how you do NOT want to be! Discerning the difference will free you from your cycles. Your spirit guides will help you, once you get the ball rolling on your own.
3. Stop Rejecting Yourself For Being Rejected
As an adult when you face rejection in your romantic relationships, it can be devastating to lose your partner. It may feel like a life or death situation – much like you felt as a child. This is why it is so heartbreaking to lose the one that you love. When someone breaks up with you, it is possible that you revert to being a child and those first feeling of hurt.
You start to think that when someone you love more than anything rejects you or takes away their love, it is because you didn’t behave. Again, you weren’t that “good girl” or “good boy.”
These hurt feeling are just reinforced by your childhood experiences. You may feel like there is something wrong with you. You are not perfect. You have many flaws. You are unworthy of love.
Rejection as an adult causes you to dig deep into your feelings of loss as a child and can cause you great emotional turmoil as a result.
Stop blaming yourself for someone else rejecting you, it will only make it worse. Instead, love yourself for the reasons they rejected you, and change the parts you don’t like. By making an active change, it signals your spirit guides to step in and show you signs.
4. Listen With Your Heart, Even When It’s Broken
Your spirit guides have a lot to say when you are nursing a broken heart. They want you to know that there is nothing wrong with you. You are not flawed. You are not broken. You are perfect the way you are and beautiful all at the same time. You are worthy of the love of another. You are still that adorable and loving person that you were when you were born.
While my clients often think that rejection in a relationship is all their fault. They have forgotten who they are. They think they are not good enough and easily forgot the truth about themselves.
They think they are not pretty enough. They think they are not good enough. They think their relationship ended because they were not interesting enough. They think everything was their fault. Relationships are a two-way street, and you need to allow yourself to let go.
Do not let your mind try to figure out what went wrong. Do not second guess your actions and think that your relationship would not be over had you acted or behaved differently. You are good enough, and it was not your fault that your relationship ended.
5. Forgive Yourself For Failed Relationships
Relationships do end all the time. There is a variety of reasons that they do, and it is not because you are not good enough Your relationship didn’t end because you didn’t have the right talents or weren’t as sophisticated and smart as your partner wanted you to be. You didn’t break up because you were not pretty enough. The truth behind your break up is that you never once stopping being the divine you. You have a quick and strong nature to love someone, and this has never stopped.
Let your truth in. Let go of the lies that you are telling yourself. Forget what you think is good or bad about yourself.
You need to hold on to yourself as an authentic being that is divine. Be who you really are. When you remember this, love will come. You may still be hurting after your break up but know it is temporary.
You still have your respect and love. There is no reason to blame yourself, feel guilt or abuse yourself. You will soon realize that your pain has disappeared and you are ready to love again. You can do it, and you can be yourself with another without fail.
But it’s not your fault!
Most people go through their entire lives lying to themselves about who they really are, and are never capable of doing any of the things I mentioned here today.
That’s because they don’t really KNOW themselves.
They don’t understand who they REALLY are, they don’t know their own strengths and weaknesses, and they let opportunities pass them by, while mistakes they could avoid stand in their way.
However… those who DO get to know themselves operate themselves with abundance and ease.
They usually make the right decisions that lead them to the life they truly desire, even if they’ve failed a thousand times before.
They realize exactly how they work, and know how to get the most out of life without spinning their wheels…
… and they REALLY love themselves!
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I think this should make it easier for you to invite your spirit guides into your life, and break your worry cycle for good.
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Have a blessed day <3