Cutting Toxic Chords | Sun Enters Virgo Horoscope

By August 26, 2020 Astrology, Horoscope

Hey it’s Luna!

Have you noticed yourself becoming more aware lately of something you no longer want or need in your life?

Recently, the Sun officially passed out of fiery Leo, and into the realm of earthy Virgo, where it will stay until September 22nd. 

Virgo is a bit of an underrated sign, but it provides us with the medicine we need to let go of what’s holding us back and truly succeed in our lives. 

In fact, this transit may present you with the opportunity to release, once and for all, your energetic connection to a toxic relationship.

So without further ado, let’s explore what this next month has to offer! 

A Focus On Self Improvement 

While the Sun is in Virgo for the next month, we are being asked by the cosmos to take notice of our lives, and root out anything that isn’t useful, or at worst, is toxic. Virgo is an analyst, servant, and healer who is focused on helping us become more efficient and sane.

Like all signs, Virgo has a dark side. Beware of hypercriticism this month. While it’s good to improve your life and support those around you in improving theirs, make sure your effort to help doesn’t devolve into nit picking or micromanagement. This transit can aid you in learning the difference between what can be improved and what is better accepted as it is, to be embraced as imperfectly perfect.

Some things in our lives, however, are better off gone. Just like cleaning up clutter that’s accumulated on a shelf, when the Sun is in Virgo, it’s a great time to get rid of any emotional or energetic clutter you may have collected over the last year, or longer.

Pulling Up The Weeds

If your life were a garden, Virgo would be the master gardener, digging up weeds and cutting back anything that doesn’t contribute to its overall health and beauty. The transit of Sun in Virgo is encouraging you to tend to your garden and decide what gets to grow there, and what doesn’t. 

There might be a relationship in your life that has been bringing you down instead of inspiring you. Maybe you’ve been ill and have had trouble making a full recovery. Or you might be struggling with negative thinking, finding yourself locked into scarcity, depression or fear. Whatever the issue, Virgo’s logical, almost surgical approach to problem solving will help you identify the source of your unhappiness so you can bravely uproot it. 

Weeds in our garden drain our energy and steal our attention from the other opportunities in our life. While both the Sun and Mercury are in Virgo, you can use this sign’s discerning energy to pull up any weeds that have taken hold. This way, the good things in your life are able to get the energy they need to reach their full potential. 

To support you in this process, I’ve put together a short visualization practice for you.

Before you listen, find a comfortable place where you can sit undisturbed for a few minutes.

Luna’s Cord Cutting Meditation for Sun in Virgo

I hope this meditation leaves you feeling clear and empowered! Feel welcome to practice the meditation whenever you feel the need. Even just a few minutes of visualization can be highly transformational!  

We are living in a pivotal time, when cosmic and worldly forces are bringing out hidden tensions and challenging us to evolve more swiftly. One of the very best things we can do during this time is to take care of ourselves, listen to our inner truth, and have faith that when we release something in our lives that is no longer serving us, something even better will show up to take its place.

Wishing you a fruitful Sun in Virgo transit.

With Love and Logic,

Luna Dragonwell

P.S. Is there a toxic relationship or situation draining your energy right now? Are you ready to cut the cord to something in your life that is taking more than it’s giving? Let me know about it in the comments below!

Luna Dragonwell

About Luna Dragonwell

Luna Dragonwell has been fascinated with the stars since she was a child. Growing up, she learned to track planetary motion and how it affects each sign. Now as a contributor to TarotReadingDaily.com, she is here to share her zodiac sign horoscopes with you. Leave a comment for Luna below!

35 Comments

  • Maria Carolina says:

    That’s not worts blind that the one who Doesn’t want to see- it’s time to cut chords. Is obvious that every relations need to be bilateral, but also everybody is where they want to be. Just is not necessary to be mean with other person and more if that person already showed up.

  • Tee says:

    Tee I have childhood scars that won’t heal and lately I find them bleeding and bringing sorrow and pain in my life. I would like to cut chords with everything and everyone that is evolved. Have relationship that do not last and some how reminds me of the past, today I am cutting the chord permanently. I want to be free from hurt, resent, hate, sorrow, pain and I welcome love, peace, strength, happiness, harmony, support and success

  • Abigail says:

    Can you us Chord cutting to help a romantic relationship you still want in your life ?

  • Segun says:

    Hi,
    Here’s from somewhere in Africa…. An Aquarian to be precise.
    Dear Dragonwell. It’s not that I completely don’t have a clue going about situations in my life but when it comes to getting more clarity about situationships in one’s life, it’s best to contact divination experts – for that, I’d like a private means to use to contact you for a very important discussions. You can suggest whichever means that can be possible.

    But here’s….

    I had got myself entangled in a relationship with a Leo (only God knows which kinda Leo) – that I find it hard to let go. She had showed me hell, yet has a kinda spirit that resonate with mine. When we’re in a heated situations, she will ask me face to face if I love her or she go away and will find myself become dumbfounded. This happened time to time, yet our spirit resonates. People said she’s possessed with spirits. Question: Can that be true?

    Whenever I decided to cut the chord she’ll come in search of me. Whenever she puts up her bad side, I’ll hate her yet wouldn’t let go.
    Then I closed my eyes to chord the chord this last time. She called seeking to see me. Telling me there are long kept secrets I need to know. I’m confused. Question: What would you advise me to do? What will the future of the relationship be? I don’t wanna force it. I like things to emerge naturally. Please advice me. Thanks

    Your lovely sheep.

  • Segun says:

    Hi,
    Here’s from somewhere in Africa…. An Aquarian to be precise.
    Dear Dragonwell. It’s not that I completely don’t have any clue going about situations in my life but when it comes to getting more clarity about situation of things in one’s life, it’s best handled by divination experts – for that, I’d like a private medium to use to contact you for a very important discussions. You can suggest whichever means that can be possible.

    But here’s….

    I had got myself entangled in a relationship with a Leo (only God knows which kinda Leo) – that I find it hard to let go. She had showed me hell, yet has a kinda spirit that resonate with mine. When we’re in a heated situations, she will ask me if I love her or she go away and will find myself become dumbfounded. This happened time to time, yet our spirit resonates. People said she’s possessed with spirits. Question: Can that be true?

    Whenever I decided to cut the chord she’ll come in search of me. Whenever she puts up her bad side, will hate her yet wouldn’t let go.
    Then I closed my eyes to chord the chord this last time. She called seeking to see me. Telling me there are long kept secrets I need to know. I’m confused. Question: What would you advise me to do? What will the future of the relationship be? I don’t wanna force it. I like things to emerge naturally. Please advice me. Thanks

    Your lovely sheep.

  • Jc says:

    Spot on . In a toxic “situation ship” I know he’s not being completely forthcoming. Will be a yr of this come October

  • Brenda says:

    This is spot on. Sun in Virgo in my 7th house. I use to be very assertive and controlling, but have learned to lay much of that down; however I still give off a forceful presence (Sun in 1st house). This energetic tends to introduce equally forceful people into my life. I think it is unbelievable – that just last week this happened again. And I must say, while I still find that energetic somewhat attractive, I know I have moved on and need to end relationships entrenched in power struggles.

    Thank you for this post and the meditation.
    Perfect message! Perfect Timing.
    Brenda

  • Donna says:

    What a timely message, as I have attempted so many times to completely cut the cord to what I had deluded myself was a twin-flame connection, and failed!! We have been in separation, but nary a month passed without some communication for the past 4 years. I moved in April, after being stalked for several years by the man I loved. It was a violation of my privacy-and although never really threatening-it kept me bound. And the delusion for me was that LOVE was the force at play. Once he could no longer show up whenever he chose-not observing boundaries, privacy or my time-it became much more clear. And after one final tug on the chains to attempt to make this bond into an actual relationship, I decided to choose me. A new future. A new lease on having love enter my life. I had in the past found it so hard to cut the cord!!! But it feels different now. Instead of regret, I feel a bubbling anticipation.,.I can only think that it was a Karmic relationship disguised as something else. But now, I know what I deserve, what I won’t allow in my life anymore, and that I am truly okay until what I deserve shows up!!! I LOVE THE EASY FEELING OF THE CORD CUTTING THIS TIME!!!!

  • Marnie says:

    Wow!! This was spot on. I am currently in a very toxic relationship. I allow him to control every aspect of me. I find myself angry all the time, sad and depressed, and emotionally all over the place. I didnt have the courage to clean my garden until now. Thank you!! This was exactly what I needed to hear to better myself.

  • Maria Carolina says:

    Thank You Luna. This meditation is really beautiful and empowering. In my case, I detected where my weeds are, what make me happy and what triggers my shadows. I am confident this energy boost will help me clearing my garden, I also just need to finish my lockdown, to at least walk a bit! I really enjoyed the meditation, thank you!

  • Krystal says:

    I received this email today and it hit me pretty hard. In 2019 my relationship practically destroyed me spiritually, emotionally and physically. I believed I was going through a spiritual battle. My husband was not himself or maybe he was finally showing himself… ? That I do not know. But I know this, he had my heart and soul in every way. When he was unhappy so was I. Looking back now, even though I felt a strong immediate connection with him, the bond I created or we created may have become unhealthy. Now we are working things out but it is very hard. Been together since we were kids, now in our mid thirties, with four kids. This is so overwhelmingly hard. But this post resonates with me. I have been feeling as though maybe we’ve reached the end of the line. Our connection is so deep that in order to move on we need to do a cord cutting. Once again, very hard because no matter what mistakes we have made I never lost my love for him. But now know that sometimes love isn’t enough.

    • Hi Krystal, I’m wishing you strength during this time. It can be difficult to follow our inner knowing, especially when it seems like there’s a lot at stake. May your family find a harmonious way forward that benefits everyone.

  • Matthew says:

    About a week ago I cut the cord with my dad just to realize with the help of your email that we had several cords.. So I want to thank you for allowing me the environment to see that and address it correctly with the best intentions to release his negative energies and to take back my own. Thank you.

  • Gabrielle Algee says:

    Yes a toxic relationship.

  • Evelyn says:

    Hi luna , I have cut everything in my life that no longer serves me , I don’t know which to cut now , even someone who just told that he loves you everything will be ok , he had not yet done anything wrong to do I have to cut him too , let me know please .

    • Hi Evelyn, you never have to cut a cord with anyone you want to stay connected to. Only do a cord cutting practice when you need to rebalance an energy dynamic between you and someone else. Take care!

  • Georgia. says:

    Dear Luna, or whomever does the free tarot reading 3 card spread. Past, present and future. I’d like to just say it’s bullshit. I reshuffled several times and got the EXACT same three cards every time, for different questions, and whether I said I was a man or a woman. Please, what trash just to try and con people into buying some likely fake product. People actually fall for it? Are people really that stupid? I hope everyone reads this.

    • Matthew says:

      Out of kind Courtesy. The Divine Spirit may have needed you to read a message, it is not smart going into a reading whether online or in the physical with a set expected outcome, you should embrace an open mindset and accept everything that comes to grow from it.

  • Kevin says:

    As a Scorpio sun/rising/mercury/Venus/Jupiter/, so of course Mine has to come in as nothing less than a tower moment….today I cut my cord with my toxic/karmic/and possibly Twinn. My person came in Help rip me open to heal a lot of my hidden inner wound in at a rapid pace of 7 months. As I grew stronger as a person by my person, the irony of soul growth give clarity to my connection. What was once a complicated situationship that needed time to break away from before anything can take place. The Stagnation provided me time to heal but but with no forward movement nor attempt to do so by my person was creating me a whole new path of… downward spiral of lact, doubt, uneasiness and false hope. So had to make a head over heart to cut this cord before healing becomes killing of the soul…. “BITTER SWEET ENDING”.
    “IM READY UNIVERSE!!!!” Let my true person come in…!!!!

  • Lidia Lisset Mendez says:

    Hello. This email came just in time as I have found myself cutting chords with a past lover that is super toxic. It didn’t go too well, but im very happy I am clearing this out my life. It’s time to make way for those that will bring love and peace into my life. Thank you I feel very strong and determined! I am loving this shift!!

  • Dee says:

    As others have mentioned, I this recent email definitely sounded off the alarm. These is a relationship I’ve been leaning to protect my energy from for. I was encouraged today to officially cut the cord. Something my inner voice has been singing to me for months. Loving your readings and guidance.

  • Laura Lynn says:

    I always love receiving your emails but this one came at just the perfect time! I’m in the process of a major shift in my life but there has been a lingering energy from my past that Ive had a difficult time entirely moving on from. I actually had my beautiful Virgo friend do a spread for me to give me some insight. Everything she said and you wrote has given me so much confirmation! I’m choosing to loosen my grip and cut the chord on this energy that does not contribute to my life in a healthy way. Thank You Thank You!

    • You’re most welcome!

      • Jeanne M Jarin says:

        Thank you Luna, I had been thinking about a certain relationship that has been very taxing …It seems the more this person asks for my help the more ungrateful they become. I can only give so much,I still have to save energy for myself. Until you I didn’t think to cut the chord, I need to focus on positive energy .

  • TASHAUNA HAWKINS says:

    I don’t know if this relationship is worth holding on to anymore! Or maybe it’s just my guard being up. I’m also facing a situations after situations.

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